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Very simply, swagger is how a person presents themself to the world, the ability to handle a situation with calm and an uncanny grace. The ability to maintain a good level of self-confidence without seeming arrogant. The apparent effortlessness to this person’s style, the way they dress, walk and talk. A person with swagger is not very easily upset by anyone or anything.

Even those whose personality tends to be the opposite of swagger can use certain elements of a person who embodies swagger completely. don’t think it necessary to become the very definition of swagger, just adding a small bit of calm and cool to your personality can help you in the long run. If you do happen to become the definition of swagger in it’s human form, you likely already had a ton inside of you all along, but maybe didn’t know how to fully harness it yet.

People with true swagger do not pretend to know something that they obviously don’t. They realize that to be a great conversationalist, they should primarily expound on what they actually know and that they should instead, ask questions about what they don’t have knowledge of. In doing this, the person of swagger avoids being exposed as a fraud, which is contrary to authentic swagger.

In so many ways, a person with swagger will gives other their space! Their is nothing more irritating than being over-crowded by another person. Irritating is contrary to swagger. People who talk too close are NOT displaying swagger, because they make others feel uncomfortable. Someone with swagger gives others room, they do not heat a person’s face with their breath, no matter how sweet their breath may be. Everyone enjoys their own personal space, and they appreciate those who give it.

These people can “slow the moment” when problems arise, whatever the case may be. This means that whatever happens in a given moment, they have the ability to keep their head about them. The person of swagger is not panicked. They can take control of a situation when that is what is called for. But still too, they are able to follow the lead of someone capable of leading when it is appropriate. These people don’t let the emotions of others heighten their emotions. Instead, they remain steady and refuse to cry over spilled milk.

Nothing is more contrary swagger than a disrespectful person. People with swagger treat others with respect. They do not berate those working for or serving them, such as employees, waiters/waitresses, bartenders, etc. Those people who are the definition of swagger also tip according to custom and avoid looking like cheap-skates.

It’s funny, but people just yearn to be around those with true swagger, because they are fun, charismatic and curiously different. People with swagger have an element of mystery too, which is intriguing. Their cool persona is complemented because they are clean, stylish and a good communicators.

While people with swagger do realize that an intelligent debate with another person makes for interesting conversation and stimulates thought, they refrain from yelling or arguing with ignorant folks. This is of primary importance to maintaining any swagger that they may possess. Simply put, they realize that even if they are 100% correct, arguing with a fool makes them look like a fool as well. Others who happen to be looking on will not be able to decipher who is who. A fool is a person who is too loud, vulgar, substitutes intellect and communication skills with profanity and volume. From these types of people, the person of swagger will take their leave promptly and with no second thoughts.